All it is is courage. This is when you be a man and face your "fears." Believe me, you'll probably get a yes.
Tomorrow, I'll see what people she's talking to, and then strike up a conversation with them, and attempt to find out if she has a boyfriend/significant other.
If not, then i'll ask if they know if she likes me.
If yes, I'll then ask her to stay a little bit after Math class, and ask her out to laser tag/dinner sometime. If she says yes, I'll ask for her number.
Later, i'll call her and try to plan out a date and time we can go to Laser tag and the dinner. Then, i'll gauge her reaction/enjoyment for both of the "Events". If she seemed to enjoy it, i'll ask her to prom with some flowers.
Tomorrow, I'll see what people she's talking to, and then strike up a conversation with them, and attempt to find out if she has a boyfriend/significant other.
I'm agreeing with Simonpro on this one. Don't ask her friends, hell don't even approach her friends, there is no point.
I disagree. She's likely already decided if your datable material or not. So you might as well ask once as confidently as possible.After reading all these posts, I think everyone here needs to go and pickup a copy of "Hitch" with Will Smith... seriously...
I'm all in for the encouragement and I wish you the best, but I'm a little struck by the fact that you're asking a girl to the prom that you're not even sure likes you or not and you know nothing about her. Knowing whether she has a boyfriend or not would be the first indicator as to whether you know this person at all.
So, judging by the fact your asking this girl out due to her vanity, nice ass or rack, or all three, it doesn't really matter, most girls (help me out here, I know your reading this) would at least like an indicator signal and provide one back before you approach them. It's as basic as this: When you catch eye contact with each other, in class or wherever, and you smile, does she smile back? Does she look away and roll her eyes? Or stare downward and look shy? This answer will give you pretty favorable odds which way it's going to go... and either boost your confidence when you ask (as others have pointed out... you need), or save you a load of embarasement...
If somehow you've yet to make this sort of connection first, that's your #1 priority... no excuses.
After reading all these posts, I think everyone here needs to go and pickup a copy of "Hitch" with Will Smith... seriously...
If somehow you've yet to make this sort of connection first, that's your #1 priority... no excuses.
Will Smith makes me want to kill things, starting with myself.
Sorry to hear that. How did she say it though? Was it like, "Awww I'm sorry but I'm already going with someone"? Or was it more like, "Yeah, I'm already going with someone." Tone of voice is important, there--the first one could indicate that she's interested but just can't because she already has a date, the second one could indicate that she's not interested.Well, I asked her.
She said she already had someone taking her. *sigh*
O well, I guess I'm going stag
Several good points here:In the beginning of math class, I asked, kinda shyishly, "Hey Julie, can I talk to you after class?"
She said, with a smile, "Sure" (an enthusiastic sure). SO, I waited nervously throughout math class, glancing over at her. After math class, I waited around, and told my friend to head on without me. When we were the only two in the class (besides the teacher), I asked her, "Hey Julie, would you want to go out on a date with me to laser tag, and possibly dinner?"
Then she said something I didn't expect: "Is this about prom?" (inquisitive tone)
"Yeah, it is."
"Oh, sorry, I'm already going with someone" (In a kinda sorry tone)
"Oh...okay."
Then she walked away. It wasn't brisk, just a casual walk.
I definitely plan on dancing with as many non-friend single girls as I possibly can. Now that I actually know a slow dance (the simple box step), I can teach it to girls while I dance with them. Act like I'm confident.
*sigh* O well.